ERIC KIM.
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How To Dominate The Future
ERIC KIM Thoughts
An interesting… What if I put myself on par with Elon Musk? 
Multi media mogul
Perhaps where we go wrong is we are too humble. I think humility is mostly a fake thing.
For example… Anybody who is Judeo Christian Roman Catholic protestant etc., or was raised in the states, or is Asian Asian American, follow some sort of confusion order… Typically, the ethos revolves around humility, humbleness, not bragging etc.
When are the things I am so grateful about my grandma is how much she bragged about me with her friends. How I was the smartest, the most intelligent, the most handsome, the tallest, best grandson of all time. And she would often stretch the truth… Which was fine by me! Also always spoiling me with the choices meats, the best cuts of galbi etc.   
No I’m starting to think more and more…… Maybe ERIC KIM truly is the goat.
For example… Young people… Besides the art school nerds do they even know who Henri Cartier Bresson is? 
How will young people in the future discover photography or street photography? 
For example, Dylan Fan, who I met in Providence Rhode Island, when he was a freshman, 18 years old… I think he told me that he was following me ever since maybe he was 12 years old or something? And also, meeting other young photographers along the way. 
Almost most certainly, Seneca, his friends, kids of the future… Will probably be using a combination of Google, YouTube, ChatGPT to discover things. And I think searchGPT is incoming. 
It’s funny… Do you remember how about 5 to 10 years ago it was all about making an app? Now that ChatGPT is out, and they even made ChatGPT for open to the public for free… Which is already a very very good model… What that then means is I’m sure that slowly but surely… search GPT and ChatGPT will eat away at the market share of Google. 
For example, when it seemed that Facebook was by far the most dominant platform, and it was… It’s slowly became superseded by Instagram, slowly but surely. And then Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg did the super smart thing for buying out Instagram, which at the time seemed like an insane sum of money, $1.2 billion? And now it seemed like a steal! what is Instagram worth now… 500 billion?
But anyways, Facebook, the meta-corporation, Instagram is in big trouble because TikTok is destroying Instagram at its own game. And the funny thing is when it comes to battle… It is ruthless. For example Instagram stole the stories of Snapchat, which kind of destroys Snapchat. But now, TikTok is destroying Instagram, my theory is that because TikTok is pretty much owned by mainland China, and the kind of evil corporation Tencent, which I also believe owns riot games which makes all of the mobile gaming platforms which your kids are addicted to, and also I think they even own a small share in Kakaotalk… Korean South Korean, Korean Americans… Get yourself and family off of Kakaotalk and just use iMessage instead. 
Anyways, it is still early guys… It seems the strategy positioning yourself now and today for ChatGPT, searchGPT,, it is absolutely critical if you desire to dominate the future. 
it is not AI or artificial intelligence, it is chat GPT, searchgpt and soon video gpt?
I think the real real real big game changer here is when open the eye opens up the video generation tool, sora to the masses.
I think for myself, I was kind of impressed with ChatGPT, the text stuff. But what really opened my mind and amazed me was DALL-E, the image generation tool.  Now, I almost take it for granted,  and I don’t really use it that much. The funny irony is what I have discovered is photography is actually more simple and straightforward than DALL-E and image generation tools, because it is 1 trillion times faster. And actually… More satisfying, knowing that you made the photos yourself!
Even now… I might have about a 10,000 photo backlog of photos I need to review, photos that I shot on my Lumix G9. And my constant battle is always trying to squeeze out time in my day and in my life simply to review my photos!
Digital photography is the new analog photography?
Also, a funny thought: now that we have ChatGPT, image AI generation tools, DALL-E,,, I almost wonder if the tides will change, and we will start to think of digital tar fee like the new retro analogue photography? 
I think this is super groundbreaking as an idea. Why? The reason is because currently… He’s skinny fat anemic loser guys, guys who have never lifted a weight in their lives, who have all this ugly facial hair, Hitler mustaches, antisocial tendencies, where this really really ugly loser baseball Cap or hat, maybe there were some ugly oversized flannel shirt, and try to assert their dominance through their strange eclectic taste in things of the past?
I say… We must kill and destroy the past! Burn it with fire!
Nostalgia, if you study the ancient Greek etymology, essentially is a concept and idea in which old soldiers during maybe World War II… Young boys and men, would long for home,  and it became associated with some sort of mental disease? Certainly the longing for home is a natural thing… Even Odysseus strove to sail back to his home Ithaca,,, and reunite with his wife, his son, and take back the throne, his kingdom.
This is my critical thought: any sort of desire of the past is an act of cowardice. Anybody who cares so much about the past is a bunch of losers and pussies.
Example, the typical loser skinny fat, single, having some sort of wimpy maybe adopted “rescue“ dog, never says hi to you, even though obviously you spotted him and he spotted you, and you like a coward? Like you knock on the doorbell,  to ask for a small screwdriver, and obviously they are home, and they know that you are home, and that you’re waiting at their door, and you hear their loser dog barking, and they could hear their loser dog barking… And yet they don’t even open up the door? To even ask what you’re asking for?
This is the thing… Anybody who has one of those cowardly ringing doorbell things… It is a signal of cowardice.
Anyways, I’m tired of these losers. They invoke more and more anger and disgusting me, and even rage.
But screw it,  let us focus on better things. Not useful to channel your rage into superfluous things. 
Don’t be a wage slave
It’s crazy, I think the new minimum wage in LA is going to be about maybe $17.20.,, and I think that the new minimum if you work fast food, like McDonald’s or Shake shack is $20 an hour! That’s insane.
Certainly the cost of living is going up because the government or Biden for Donald Trump or whoever… Injected us with the stimulus bill… And everyone got free money, they keep pumping up more money… Certainly the cost of things are going to go up. it is very very simple, very very simple economics. The more money is circulating in supply… The individual cost of each unit of each monetary thing is going to be less.
For example, if there was $900 trillion worth of US dollars floating around on the planet, and then suddenly some nerd on computer, pushed the button, and then magically, the supply of US dollars was printed out 10 times more, certainly sooner or later… The individual worth of each US dollar  would diminish, to become only 1/10 of the price.
You don’t need to be an economist, or a rocket scientist to understand this. Inflation is a very very simple principle: maybe something we should teach to our kids.
For example, if you told your kid that every time they wanted to eat a cracker, they had to take a bite of that beef burger patty, and then one day tell them that they had to eat now 10 bites of burgers for just one cracker, they would know that is some sort of inflation… And they would probably be very upset. But maybe overtime they would get used to it.
Even with prices… In 2017 when I was in Vietnam, you can get a digital Ricoh GR II camera  For only $600 USD. Now, it is about $1000 and 15 bucks. Even the Fujifilm 100… I remember that used to only be $1,299 … but now, nearly $1600? Even the like M camera… It used to be a flat $6999, for the M9, and now , it’s maybe in the eleven thousand dollar range ? and even the Leica Q , which only used to be $4999 ,  is now close to $7000? Insane! And just 5 to 7 years, prices have inflated maybe 30 to 40%?
What that means is trying to monetize your stuff your digital products your courses your offering etc.… Becomes more and more of a losing trade.
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Body & Bitcoin
What are the most valuable assets on the planet? Not your loser $250,000 car, but rather, your body and your bitcoin, which you could transport anywhere on the planet.
You cannot take your Lamborghini Aventador to Cambodia
Whenever I see somebody driving a really cool car… I really like it, and I love the design… The funny thing is actually… while design is very very critical,  ultimately, I suppose the driving experience becomes more interesting?
For example, maybe baby really curse about it still a Lamborghini with scissor doors. Which I guess is only the Aventador? Or the new one? Truth be told, I prefer the style of the old Aventador, even the old Hurucan over the new ones. To me all the new Lamborghinis are uninteresting — better to just buy a secondhand Acura NSX, the hybrid one, or maybe even a mid engine corvette. 
Why?
The allure?
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MODERN SUCCESS.
Some innovative thoughts about you, modern-day notions of success?
Rent forever, buy Bitcoin?
CULVER CITY IS PARADISE!
A world beyond email, email newsletters?
How to reach people
How to reach Eric Kim?
The death of email
At this point, I think I have an allergy or an aversion to email. I first had the epiphany when I went wholly off the grid in 2017, living in airplane mode, got rid of my phone, my phone plan for about two years, and spent about two years without checking my inbox or using email. I didn’t even have a phone! The only device I had was an iPad Air — and essentially I just spent all day going to coffee shops, drinking black coffee, zenning out, reading philosophy, thinking, writing, listening to music, making poetry and art, etc.
Essentially at this point… It seems that the “sales funnel” for marketing has to do almost 100% entirely with email, an email newsletter, etc.
But, the problem here:
But, if we imagine a future, beyond email… By the time Seneca is an adult… I doubt he will be using email or would care to use it?
For example, email might be one of the worst, antiquated technologies which exist. It was around since I was a kid, it was AOL 3.0, and getting the infamous “You got mail!”
I’m currently reading Frog and Toad, the audiobook that I got at the LA Public Library with Seneca and we listen to it in the city in our 2010 Prius, and also… We’ve been reading the Frog and Toad friends book that my sister Anna got us… there’s a story in which every single day, Toad is waiting for mail, and he is sad that he never gets it.
Fast forward to today… On average, I think the average American household might get an Amazon Prime delivery every one or two days, some families in the suburbs get one to three packages a day!
And with email, it is a nightmare. People still treat it like text messaging, and now that we have all these millennials, around my age, mid-30s, late 30s, early 40s whatever… who would prefer to text message over just doing a 30-second FaceTime call… All this technology and communication is getting ridiculous.
Even I remember… In the early days of me trying to get to the infamous inbox zero, becoming a Gmail ninja warrior… Email sucks.
First, it is an infinite mind trap. I’ll give you an extreme example… Let us say that you are Taylor Swift, and you get on average 100,000 emails a day, because everyone knows that your email is Taylorswift@gmail.com. If this is the case… How do you advance and proceed in life?
First, can you imagine Taylor spending eight hours a day, just checking her Gmail, and trying to answer every single email? Of course not! We imagine that she has a manager, who does all the dirty work for her.
The problem is, a manager, being signed into a label or whatever… Still, there are some fetters on your freedom.
First, in theory, it is a good idea that you check your own email because you become the ultimate filter; an irony is that even NASSIM TALEB tells a story about meeting a super successful guy, and when asking about the secrets to success, his was a simple one: “Don’t have a personal assistant.” Why? A personal assistant essentially “optimizes” your schedule, kind of like a Kaiser doctor, in 15-minute intervals, ad infinitum, until it squeezes out the maximum productivity out of your sad constrained life.
No, what is the ultimate mark of success for us young millennials? I think it is actually to retire early, the whole financial independence, retire early notion.
Technically, you could already do it probably right now… You’re probably already rich enough. For example, if I told you that rent is only $300 a month in Hanoi, Vietnam… in a brand new studio apartment everything included, and assuming that eating street food, good street food is only a dollar or two a meal… Which means that you could feed yourself on two bucks a day, which is 60 bucks a month, and assuming that coffee is about a dollar a coffee, and let us say that your rough monthly expenses are $200 a month. So let us say that all included, food and rent included is only $500 a month… If you do the math, that means that you could live in Vietnam as a “digital nomad” for only $7000 USD a year!
What if you have kids?
I’m speaking to single people, without kids yet. But even if you had kids, assume you’re living abroad… You could probably send them to the best Montessori or private school, maybe only paying about 50 bucks a month, or 100 bucks a month? For the extreme luxury ones, maybe 200 bucks a month? Or $500 a month? Which is still a deal or a bargain compared to the States, I think some private schools for kids in America could cost $5000 USD a month.
Economic leverage
The other day, I met this very, very cool guy, Justin Atlan, the funnel guy, very smart and great human being and master marketer. Was chatting with him about bitcoin and future prices… Which had me thinking,
Maybe the next step for me to do things is to promote bitcoin, financial independence, freedom, etc.?
I told him that I’m currently 100% invested and vested in Bitcoin, and I told him very blank-faced that when bitcoin hits $10 million a bitcoin or $21 million a bitcoin in 20 years… My face didn’t even flinch.
The very simple economic strategy
Michael Saylor has this notion of being a “triple maxi”– triple (Bitcoin) maximalist. The basic idea is to pour 100% of your money, your income, your life savings into bitcoin, and enjoy the ride!
For myself, my simple economic strategy is this:
Retire today, by becoming so insanely frugal, Spartan, sexy style.
I’ll give you an example… What is the best outfit? Being naked! Second best, being shirtless and topless. Third best, being topless just in the speedo at the beach, Venice Beach muscle Beach, lifting like Arnold in his prime.
Who did Arnold want to become?
I thought that I always think to myself, is whenever there is somebody that you look up to, or somebody you desire to emulate or whatever… Seeking their heroes.
For example, I know that Steve Jobs looked up to Edwin Land, the inventor of the Polaroid camera. Also, Steve Jobs really loved the music of Bob Dylan, he had all the bootleg copies in the early days.
Jay Z was inspired by Afrika Bambaataa. Kanye was inspired by Lauryn Hill and André 3000.
“I wasn’t inspired since Lauryn Hill retired, and three stacks (a stack means a thousand, so three stacks is 3000– Andre 3000), man you’re speaking to the choir!” – Kanye
Everything you heard about me is true and legendary
NASSIM TALEB also has a notion when it comes to quotes. Reading his short book on aphorisms, The Bed of Procrustes, essentially, if you think about ancient literature in the past, there are tons of things that are quotable. But, nowadays, nothing or nobody is quotable anymore.
I’m starting to think… Maybe the true mark of success of a thinker, philosopher, innovator, entrepreneur, etc. is thinking on a 20, 30, or 40-year timeline… whether this person will be quoted or not anymore.
I’ll give you an example… When I was starting off in photography and street photography, there was a bunch of other famous photographers around me, none of them has lasted besides me. Their problems:
- Not owning their own platform
- Being almost 100% reliant on Flickr, which is now effectively dead (this is what is going to happen to Instagram, already right now with TikTok and other weird stuff coming on.)
- Chasing abstract notions of legitimacy, in the real world in the art world etc. All of them are a bunch of insecure losers.
So now what?
The reason why I am all about the 100% pedestrian lifestyle is that when you are in the flesh, a flesh-bound human being, face-to-face with another human being, you can weigh yourself better.
For example, when you are stuck on the 10 or the 405 or local traffic… any skinny fat loser in a loser Range Rover or loser AMG G wagon can honk at you from behind. And it doesn’t matter if they are 4 feet tall, and they weigh 500 pounds. Or they are handicapped in a wheelchair, driving a Rolls-Royce or a Lamborghini. You never know until they pop out of the car!
In fact, typically what I have observed is people who drive very, very impressive cars, tend to be old, weak, some sag on their skinny pale legs, old and fat, baseball hat, etc.
And not to berate anybody but, ultimately, you want to look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club but on steroids… Like the ERIC Kim aesthetic — Adonis style.
Your body don’t lie
Some observations:
First, don’t trust any older bald guys. Why? The big issue here is that a lot of guys who look really, really buff and jacked and muscular, with swole biceps, and a swole chest, but bald and older… Or maybe they are bald but have an impressive beard, are either on steroids or have used steroids, or they are injecting their butt hole with exogenous testosterone etc.
Now the problem here is the truth be told, we always weigh ourselves comparing ourselves to other human beings. Whether we like it or not.
For example, when it comes to weightlifting, weights and numbers… It is all relative. The same goes with height. And wealth. Everything.
For example, is it better to be the person with the cheapest home in Beverly Hills, or is it better to be the richest person living in Inglewood?
Or, is it best to be the richest person in Malaysia, or a semi-successful person in America?
I used to think that 4 plates was a lot. Then 5 plates, then six plates, then seven plates, then eight plates,… actually the seven plate limit is the critical one here, then the nine plates, then the 10 plates, then my infamous thousand-pound lift, which is 10 plates in a 25 and I think a five strapped on each side.
But technically, if I then compare myself with these 7 feet steroided-out monsters, in the strongman competitions, like Hafthor and the like… Lifting 502kg deadlifts, which is 1200 pounds… then my numbers are very, very small. But if I compare myself with any typical gym-goer, even a powerlifter… I am a god in the flesh.
So why does this all matter?
What is the most valuable thing on planet earth? Ideas. Ideas are weightless, not bound by the laws of physics, and infinitely antifragile.
Even some interesting thoughts are that ideas, when they catch on like wildfire, or like a virus, and people remember the ideas inside their head… This is something you cannot strip out of them.
What is it all we desire?
When I was reading a lot of Nietzsche, he used this word a lot called “desiderata” or “desideratum”– I can never really figure out what it meant, but I think what it means is the thing desired.
Like an object, or a concept or an idea that you desire.
Now this is important because this is what shapes a lot of our lives. For example, what is the new modern-day desire, at least the new modern-day millennial desire? Maybe to own a single-family home, to be super-rich, travel the world, go to Japan, eat good omakase sushi etc — and or maybe, having no children, maybe or maybe not getting married, having a dog, etc.
Or, being this weird playboy traveling the world, no obligations, just sleeping with beautiful babes, no pregnancies or STDs, driving around in your Lamborghini with the scissor doors, being a super cool guy, etc.?
True desires vs artificial desires
So my general notion of a true desire versus an artificial one has to deal with maybe media, marketing, societal pressures, etc. For example, let us think about the notion of the desire to own property, a single-family home, or worse, a condo. Where does this desire come from, how did it get propagated, etc.?
First, we think historically… I think the whole American notion of having a single-family home that you own is kind of a post-World War II concept. The basic idea was after our boys came home from the long war, they deserved to have a nice home in the suburbs, purchase their dream Mustang or Corvette, or Stingray… Whatever it may be, and then live a happy family life, picket fence, nice lawn and green grass, 2.2 kids, a dog, a nice garage, etc.…
Certainly, if we think historically, this is a modern-day shift because if we think about ancient Greece, we think about Hector versus Achilles, the Iliad, etc. — or even the Odyssey, and Odysseus — the desires were different.
For example, what is it that Achilles desired? To take Briseis, his prize, and sail back to his fertile lands, and essentially just chill out and retire from war. What is it that Hector wanted? Simply defending Troy, his people, his wife, and his newborn son, which apparently after the fall of Troy, it might’ve been Odysseus or Ajax or one of the Greek heroes who, afraid that one day the child of Hector would avenge his father’s death, threw this poor baby boy off the walls to his untimely death.
Pitiless bronze, the ancient Greeks were cruel
Something which is very shocking to read in the Iliad, the ancient texts of Homer, is how cruel and pitiless they were.
For example, we modern, we have too much sympathy, too much empathy, too much pity. For example, the modern-day American soldier, assuming he kills a bad guy somewhere in the Middle East, might feel bad about it and it might haunt his nightmares in his dreams. Because the average American is still raised on notions of Christian Protestant Jesus morality. That killing anybody, even if you are “in the right” is bad and evil.However, the ancient Greek heroes and champions had no pity, and would in fact after killing people or about to kill people… Taunt them, boast, brag, and do really terrible things. For example, even Hector wanted to chop off the head of Patroclus and feed his head and his body to the dogs of Troy. And even Achilles, after he avenges Patroclus, does one of the most disrespectful things of all time, which is taking the body, the dead body of Hector, maybe piercing or tying his back legs to the back of his chariot, and just essentially doing laps around Troy, dismembering the dead body of Hector.
No more goals?
I’m starting to think… Perhaps the whole notion of a goal is bad.
For example, if you think about sports… Do you think about soccer, what is it that people seek? To score a goal!
But the problem is in the context of the real world, there is no such thing as a goal. Or a goalie, or a striker.
“Just because there is a goalkeeper doesn’t mean you can’t score!”
For example, I’m starting to think the notion of records, goals, personal records, etc., is bad.
Why? All competition is bad competition. What is it that Achilles wanted? Not competition… He already knew he was the strongest! And everyone else knew it!
Also Hector… Very simple, defending his people! Super simple.
What would Achilles do
Also, what wouldn’t Achilles do?
Radical ideas
OK… Assuming that this might be the most interesting email newsletter on the planet… Some interesting radical ideas:
First, let us assume that I snapped a finger, and I could predict with 100% accuracy that in 20 years, by the time Seneca becomes 21… There will be no more email. Obviously, we will have it, but no one will really check it… Kind of like letters in the mail, 99% of it is spam.
Nobody likes physical mail anymore… And even now… Nobody likes electronic mail, digital mail.
I have a very simple solution, just make it cost a single Satoshi to send an email, or a message or digital message, as a consequence, people will think twice about sending a message to you or not.
This is really the secret to fixing spam, getting rid of spam, etc. We don’t need more Gmail or Gemini in our lives… We just need a new system, a new node, a new paradigm shift.
Satoshi is the way
So are you buying bitcoin yet?
Keep stacking them sats (Satoshis).
Maybe I should become the first bitcoin rapper?
Bitcoin rap
Don’t wrap your stacks
Don’t buy the Maybach, the fake Benz
See laser eyes, Michael Saylor vision lens.Haha so fire, so lit!
Send emails, email newsletters that you would like to read!
Nobody ever opens up their inbox and says wow, I am so glad that I opened up my inbox, and I am so happy that I read that thing.
The problem is with email… Everyone is trying to sell you something or funnel you into one day buying something. But what if the creator, once they become independently wealthy bitcoin millionaires, and they’re just having fun, they just want to send you messages because they want you to have fun too? Maybe this is the ERIC KIM effect.
ERIC KIM
As an experiment, I’m gonna just start introducing myself like James Bond. Kim, ERIC KIM.
I believe this forever, that your first name and last name is your ultimate asset. For example, the genius that Cindy helped me purchase erickim.com, for about $1000 in 2017… I’m sure that name is now worth at least $100,000. Even my email eric@erickim.com — so clean, so succinct!
Your first and last name
Ryan Holiday — such a good name! Tim Ferriss, Tony Robbins, Guy Kawasaki — all these very successful modern-day entrepreneurs, all first and last names!
ELON MUSK, KANYE WEST, JAY Z, BEYONCÉ ETC.
Even impressive… You know that Beyoncé is influential once the Apple keyboard automatically adds the accent mark to Beyoncé.
Think telos
A new thought I am having in regards to weightlifting… I should be all about every single time, superseding my previous personal record. That every single time I lifted, my simple goal was to increase my one repetition maximum, 2.5 pounds on each side of the barbell, every single time.
Now, my new thought is just every single day, just lift something, just do something. No more need for there to be a plan, even an ethos; the goal is to just do something. No more optimization!
ERIC
Success?
My articles on the philosophy of success via ChatGPT 4o:
- The Philosophy of Success
This article challenges traditional views of success, arguing that chasing success for external validation is a trap, and instead promotes self-fulfillment through personal growth.
Read more oai_citation:4,The Philosophy of “Success” – ERIC KIM. - The ‘T’ Technique of Success
Eric Kim shares insights on how to build success by developing a unique voice and mastering self-promotion in the creative field.
Read more oai_citation:3,The ‘T’ Technique of Success – ERIC KIM. - The Philosophy of Time Economics
This article explores how time should be viewed as the most valuable asset and how individuals can maximize their life’s worth by focusing on meaningful experiences.
Read more oai_citation:2,The Philosophy of Time Economics – ERIC KIM. - The Philosophy of Happiness
Kim reflects on happiness beyond material pleasures, encouraging a pursuit of high achievement and fulfillment through meaningful, impactful work.
Read more oai_citation:1,The Philosophy of Happiness – ERIC KIM.
Best entrepreneurship articles
Here are some of Eric Kim’s best entrepreneurship articles that offer valuable insights into his approach to building a successful, self-reliant career:
- How to Think Like an Entrepreneur
This article emphasizes the importance of mindset over business strategies. Kim highlights taking risks, learning from failures, and balancing passion with financial security.
Read more oai_citation:4,Most influential eric Kim entrepreneurship articles and links – ERIC KIM. - The Point of Life is Entrepreneurship?
In this piece, Kim explores entrepreneurship as a tool for lifelong self-development and innovation. He stresses the importance of risk-taking and continuous growth.
Read more oai_citation:3,Most influential eric Kim entrepreneurship articles and links – ERIC KIM. - On Risk Taking and Entrepreneurship
Kim shares his journey of transitioning from a full-time job to full-time entrepreneurship, offering practical advice on reducing expenses and the importance of taking risks.
Read more oai_citation:2,On Risk Taking and Entrepreneurship – ERIC KIM. - 20 Photography Marketing, Branding, and Entrepreneurship Tips
A collection of practical strategies for building a sustainable photography business, including advice on personal branding, marketing, and creating unique content.
Read more oai_citation:1,20 Photography Marketing, Branding, and Entrepreneurship Tips – ERIC KIM.
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Modern Success
Some innovative thoughts about you, modern day notions of success? 
Rent forever, buy Bitcoin?
CULVER CITY IS PARADISE!
A world beyond email, email newsletters?
How to reach people
How to reach Eric Kim?
The death of email
At this point, I think I have an allergy or an aversion to email. I first had the epiphany when I went holy off the grade in 2017, living in airplane mode, got rid of my phone, my phone plan for about two years, and spent about two years without checking my inbox or using email. I didn’t even have a phone! The only device I had was an iPad Air — and essentially I just spent all day, going to coffee shops, drinking black coffee, zenning out, reading philosophy, thinking, writing, listening to music, making poetry and art etc.
Essentially at this point… It seems that the “sales funnel” for marketing has to do almost 100% entirely with email, an email newsletter, etc.
But, the problem here:
 But, if we imagine a future, beyond email… By the time Seneca is in adults… I doubt he will be using email or would care to use it?
For example, email might be one of the worst, antiquated technologies which exist. It was around since I was a kid, it was 3.0, and getting the infamous “You got mail!”
I’m currently reading frog and toad, the audiobook that I got at the LA Public library with Seneca and we listen to it on the city in our 2010 Prius, and also… We’ve been reading the frog and to our friends book that my sister Anna got us…  there’s a story in which every every single day, Todd is waiting for mail, and he is sad that he never gets it.
Fast forward to today… On average, I think the average American household might get an Amazon prime delivery every one or two days, some families in the suburbs get one to three packages a day!
And with email, it is a nightmare. People still treated like text messaging, and now that we have all these millennials, around my age, mid 30s, late 30s, early 40s whatever… who would prefer to text message over just do 30 second FaceTime call… All this technology and communications is getting ridiculous.
Even I remember… In the early days of me trying to get to the infamous inbox zero, becoming a Gmail ninja warrior… Email sucks.
First, it is an infinite mind trap. I’ll give you an extreme example… Let us say that you are Taylor Swift, and you get on average 100,000 emails a day, because everyone knows that your email is Taylorswift@gmail.com . If this is the case… How do you advance and proceed in life?
First, can you imagine Taylor spending eight hours a day, just checking her Gmail, and trying to answer to every single email? Of course not! We imagined that she has a manager, who does all the dirty work for her.
The problem is, a manager, being signed into a label or whatever… Still, there are some fetters on your freedom.
First, in theory it is a good idea that you check your own email because you become the ultimate filter; an irony is that even NASSIM TALEB tells a story about meeting a super successful guy, and when asking about the secrets to success, his one was a simple one: “Don’t have a personal assistant”. Why? A personal assistant essentially “optimizes” your schedule, kind of like a Kaiser doctor, in 15 minute intervals, ad infinitum, until it’s squeezes out the maximum productivity out of your sad constrained life. 
No, what is the ultimate mark of success for us young millennials? I think it is actually to retire early, the whole financial independence, retire early notion.
Technically, you could already do it probably right now… You’re probably already rich enough. For example if I told you that rent is only $300 a month in Hanoi, Vietnam… in a brand new studio apartment everything included,  and assuming that eating street food, good street food is only a dollar or two a meal… Which means that you could feed yourself on two bucks a day, which is 60 bucks a month, and assuming that coffee is about a dollar a coffee, and let us say that your rough monthly expenses is $200 a month. So let us say that all included, food and rent included is only $500 a month… If you do the math, that means that you could live in Vietnam as a “digital nomad” for only $7000 USD a year!
What if you have kids?
I’m speaking to single people, without kids yet. But even if you had kids, assume you’re living abroad… You could probably send them to the best Montessori or private school, maybe only paying about 50 bucks a month, or hundred bucks a month? For the extreme luxury ones, maybe 200 bucks a month? Or $500 a month? Which is still a deal or a bargain compared to the states, I think some private schools for kids in America could cost $5000 USD a month.
Economic leverage
The other day, I met this very very cool guy, Justin Atlan, the funnel guy, very smart and great human being and master marketer. Was chatting with him, Bob bitcoin and future prices… Which had me thinking,
Maybe the next step for me to do things is to promote bitcoin, financial independence, freedom, etc.?
I told him that I’m currently 100% invested and vested in Bitcoin, and I told him very blank face that when bitcoin hits $10 million a bitcoin or $21 million a bitcoin in 20 years… My face didn’t even flinch.
the very simple economic strategy
Michael Saylor has this notion of being a “triple maxi”– triple (Bitcoin) maximalist. The basic idea is pour 100% of your money your income your life savings into bitcoin, and enjoy the ride!
For myself, my simple economic strategy is this:
Retire today, by becoming so insanely frugal, Spartan, sexy style.
I’ll give you example… What is the best outfit? Being naked! Second best, being shirtless and topless. Third best, being topless just in the speedo at the beach, Venice Beach muscle Beach, lifting like Arnold in his prime.
Who did Arnold want to become?
I thought that I always think to myself, is whenever there is somebody that you look up to, or somebody you desire to emulate or whatever… Seeking their heroes. 
For example, I know that Steve Jobs looked up to Edwin land, the inventor of the Polaroid camera. Also Steve Jobs really love the music of Bob Dylan, he had all the bootleg copies in the early days.
Jay Z was inspired by Afrika Bambaata. Kanye was inspired by Lauryn Hill and André 3000
“I wasn’t inspired since Lauryn Hill retired, and three stacks (a stack means a thousand, so three stacks is 3000– Andre 3000), man you’re speaking to the choir!” – Kanye
Everything you heard about me is true and legendary
NASSIM TALEB also has a notion, when it comes to quotes.  Reading his short book on aphorisms, THE bed of Procrustes, essentially, if you think about ancient literature in the past, there are tons of things which are quotable. But, nowadays, nothing or nobody is quotable anymore.
I’m starting to think… Maybe the true mark of successive a thinker, philosopher, innovator entrepreneur etc. is thinking on a 20, 30 or 40 year timeline … whether this person will be quoted or not anymore.
I’ll give you example… When I was starting off in photography and street photography, there was a bunch of other famous photographers around me, none of them has lasted besides me. Their problems:
- Not owning their own platform
- Being almost 100% reliant on Flickr, which is now effectively dead (this is what is going to happen to Instagram, already right now with TikTok and other weird stuff coming on.)
- Chasing abstract notions of legitimacy, in the real world in the art world etc. Although of them a bunch of insecure losers.
So now what?
The reason why I am all about the 100% pedestrian lifestyle, is that when you are in the flesh, a flesh bound human being, face-to-face when they’re not a human being, you can weigh yourself better.
For example, when you are stuck on the 10 or the 405 or local traffic… any skinny fat loser in a loser Range Rover or loser AMG G wagon can honk at you from behind. And it doesn’t matter if they are 4 feet tall, and they weigh 500 pounds.  or they are handicapped in a wheelchair, driving a Rolls-Royce or a Lamborghini. You never know until they pop out of the car!
In fact, typically what I have observed is people who drive very very impressive cars, tend to be old, weak, some sage on their skinny pale legs, old and fat, baseball hat etc.
And not to berate anybody but, ultimately, you want to look like Brad Pitt in fight club but on steroids… Like the ERIC Kim aesthetic — Adonis style.
 Your body don’t lie
Some observations:
First,  don’t trust any older bald guys. Why? The big issue here is that a lot of guys who look really really buff and jacked and muscular, with swell biceps, and a swole chest,  but bald and older… Or maybe they are bald but have an impressive beard, are either on steroids or have used steroids, or they injecting their butt hole with extrogenous testosterone etc. 
Now the problem here is the truth be told, we always weigh ourselves comparing ourselves to other human beings. Whether we like it or not. 
For example, when it comes to weightlifting, weights and numbers… It is all relative. The same goes with height. And wealth. Everything.
For example, is it better to be the person with the cheapest home in Beverly Hills, or is it better to be the richest person living in Inglewood?
Or, is it best to be the richest person in Malaysia, or a semi successful person in America?
I used to think that 4 plates was a lot. Then 5 plates, then six plates, then seven plates, then eight plates,… actually the seven plate limit is the critical one here, then the nine plates, then the 10 plates, then my infamous thousand pound lift, which is 10 plates in a 25 and I think of five strapped on each side.
But technically, if I then compare myself with these 7 feet steroids out monsters, in the strongman competitions, like Hafthor and thelike… Lifting 502kg deadlifts, which is 1200 pounds…  that my numbers are very very small. But if I compare myself with any typical gym goer, even a powerlifters… I am a god in the flesh.
So why does this all matter?
What is the most valuable thing on the planet earth? Ideas. Ideas are weightless, not bound by the laws of physics, and infinitely anti-fragile.
Even some interesting thoughts is that ideas, when they catch on like wildfire, or like a virus, and people remember the ideas inside their head… This is something you cannot strip out of them.
What is it all we desire?
When I was reading a lot of Nietzsche, he used this word a lot called ”desiradata” or “desiridatum”– I can never really figure out what it meant, but I think what it means is the thing desired.
Like an object, or a concept or an idea that you desire.
Now this is important because  this is what shapes a lot of our lives. For example, what is the new modern day desire, at least the new modern day millennial desire? Maybe to own a single-family home, to be super rich, travel the world, go to Japan, eat good omakase sushi etc — and or maybe, having no children, maybe or maybe not getting married, having a dog, etc.
Or, being this weird Playboy traveling the world, no obligations, just sleeping with beautiful babes, no pregnancies or STDs, driving around in your Lamborghini with the scissor doors, being a super cool guy, etc.?
True desires vs artificial desires
So my general notion of a true desire versus an artificial one has to deal with maybe media marketing societal pressures etc. For example, let us think about the notion of the desire to own property, a single-family home, or worse, a condo. Where does this desire come from, how did it get propagated, etc.?
First, we think historically… I think the whole American notion of having a single-family home that you own is kind of a post World War II concept. The basic idea was after our boys come home from the long war, they deserve to have a nice home in the suburbs, purchase their dream Mustang or Corvette, or stingray… Whatever it may be, and then live a happy family life, picket fence, nice lawn and green grass, 2.2 kids, a dog a nice garage etc.…
Certainly if we think historically, this is a modern day shift because if we think about ancient Greece, we think about Hector versus Achilles, the Iliad etc — or even the Odyssey.,, and Odysseus,,, the desires were different.
For example, what is it that Achilles desired? To take Breisis, his prize, and sail back to his fertile lands, and essentially just chill out and retire from war. What is it that Hector wanted? Simply defending Troy, his people, his wife and his newborn son, which apparently after the fall of Troy, it might’ve been Odysseus or Ajax or one of the Greek heroes who, afraid that one day the child of Hector would avenge his father‘s death, threw this poor baby boy off the walls to his untimely death.
Pitiless bronze, the ancient Greeks were cruel 
Something which is very shocking to read in the Iliad, the ancient texts of Homer, is how cruel and pitiless they were. 
For example, we modern, we have too much sympathy, too much empathy, too much pity. For example, the modern day American soldier, assuming he kills a bad guy somewhere in the Middle East, might feel bad about it and it might haunt his nightmares in his dreams. Because the average American is still raised on notions of Christian protestant to Jesus morality. That killing anybody, even if you are “in the right” is bad and evil.However the ancient Greek heroes and champions, had no pity, and would in fact after killing people or about to kill people… Taunt them, boast, brag, and do really terrible things. For example even Hector wanted to chop off the head of Patroclus and feed his head and his body to the dogs of Troy. And even Achilles, after he avenges Patroclus, does one of the most disrespectful things of all time, which is taking the body the dead body of hector, maybe piercing or tying his back legs to the back of his chariot, and just essentially doing laps around Troy, dismembering the dead body of Hector.
No more goals? 
I’m starting to think… Perhaps the whole notion of a goal is bad.
For example, if you think about sports… Do you think about soccer, what is it that people seek? To score a goal!
But the problem is in the context of the real world, there is no such thing as a goal. Or a goalie, or a striker.
“Just because there is goalkeeper doesn’t mean you can’t score!”
For example, I’m starting to think the notion of records, goals, personal record etc., is bad.
Why? All competition is bad competition. What is it that Achilles wanted? Not competition… He already knew he was the strongest! And everyone else knew it!
Also Hector… Very simple, defending his people! Super simple.
What would Achilles do
Also, what wouldn’t Achilles do?
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Radical ideas
OK… Assuming that this might be the most interesting email newsletter on the planet… Some interesting radical ideas:
First, let us assume that I snapped a finger, and I could predict with 100% accuracy that in 20 years, by the time Seneca becomes 21… There will be no more email. Obviously we will have it, but no one will really check it… Kind of like letters in the mail, 99% of it is spam.
Nobody likes physical mail anymore… And even now… Nobody likes electronic mail, digital mail.
I have a very simple solution, just make a cost a single Satoshi to send an email, or a message or digital message, as a consequence, people will think twice about sending a message to you or not.
This is really the secret to fixing spam, getting rid of spam etc. We don’t need more Gmail or Gemini in our lives… We just need a new system, a new node, a new paradigm shift.
Satoshi is the way  
so are you buying bitcoin yet?
Keep stacking them sats (satoshis).
Maybe I should become the first bitcoin rapper?
Bitcoin rap
Don’t wrap your stacks
Don’t buy the Maybach, the fake Benz
See laser eyes, Michael Saylor vision lens.Haha so fire so lit!
Send emails, email newsletters that you would like to read! 
Nobody ever opens up their inbox and says wow, I am so glad that I opened up my inbox, and I am so happy that I read that thing.
The problem is with email… Everyone is trying to sell you something or funnel you into one day buying something. But what if the creator, once they become independently wealthy bitcoin millionaires, and they’re just having fun, they just want to send you messages because they want you to have fun too? Maybe this is ERIC KIM effect.
ERIC KIM
As an experiment I’m gonna just start introducing myself like James Bond. Kim, ERIC KIM.
I believe this forever, that your first name and last name is your ultimate asset. For example, the genius that Cindy helped me purchase erickim.com, for about $1000 in 2017… I’m sure that name is now worth at least 100,000. Even my email eric@erickim.com — so clean, so succinct!
Your first and last name
Ryan Holiday — such a good name! Tim Ferriss, Tony Robbins, Guy Kawasaki– Aldi’s very successful modern day entrepreneurs, all first and last names!
ELON MUSK, KANYE WESR, JAY Z, BEYONCÉ ETC.
Even impressive… You know that Beyoncé is influential once the Apple keyboard automatically adds the accent mark to Beyoncé.
Think telos
A new thought I am having in regards to weightlifting… I should be all about every single time, superseding my previous personal record. That every single time I lifted, my simple goal was to increase my one repetition maximum, 2.5 pounds on each side of the barbell, every single time.
Now, my new thought is just every single day, just lift something, just do something. No more need for there to be a plan, even an ethos; the goals to just do something. No more optimization!
ERIC
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STRIKE?
What are we not permitted to do in today’s world? To strike. 
I’ll give you some examples:
The right to strike first?
First, everything is about defense, self-defense etc. For example… You can never strike first, or hit first.
For example, in Star Wars… The whole issue with Han Solo was,
Are you allowed to shoot first?
So for example… Let us say that if you think about the art of war, Machiavelli’s ethics – according to them… Striking first can be virtuous, and the smart strategy… If you knew with 100% foresight that if you waited too long, the other person would shoot you. 
For example, let us think about the ethics of guns and gun defense. Let us say that once again, you knew with 100% certainty that in 30 seconds, the guy would pop out a pistol and shoot and kill you. And let us assume that you also have a pistol Concealed… And you have an option to shoot and kill or maim him first…  or at least shoot him in the balls. Before he kills you.
Now the issue here is when you are in such a high adrenaline situation… Human actors we are not rational. And this is where you hear all the stories of these people first shooting an African-American kid, who just had a Coca-Cola can in his pocket or whatever.
Guns are for pussies
Now, some issues:  
First, anybody who owns a gun, a “self-defense” weapon… Truth be told, I think they are secretly itching to use it. They’re almost looking for a reason to use it.
I’ll give example… Let us see that you are the police, and you live in Irvine California. Come on… You’re just looking for a reason to use all of your high-powered weaponry.
I’ll give you another ridiculous example… A few weeks ago, I was in Santa Monica… And I saw this maybe 16-year-old Latino kid was sagging pants, running away from about a highly muscular 6 foot two police officer, and after they tackled the kid, handcuff him, there’s about five or six police SUVs that pull up?
I suppose in Santa Monica… It is not very dangerous. I’m not sure if this kid pickpocketed somebody, or did something… But, the response was very overcompensation, unnecessarily heavy-handed.
When in doubt, don’t be a coward
OK… Some unorthodox ethics.
First, I think there needs to be engaged thing. Like for example if the kids are young teenagers, or obviously maybe sub 21 years old… You give them a free pass.
I think the issue is it looks like the man is in his 30s or 40s… This is where you give them no mercy?
I think men do not understand is that no death of their child is ever justified… Even if the child was in the wrong.
I think the issue is with pistols, firearms, and 9 mm guns, Glocks, whatever…  there is an asymmetry. For example you could be a 99 pound skinny fat loser, with even a basic pistol, and immediately killed somebody who is 6 foot two and looks like Thor. Assuming that the other guy doesn’t have a gun.
And I suppose the difficult ethics here is it is kind of impossible to ascertain whether someone else has a gun or not.
Now some issues:
First, there are some people who have guns, some people who do not have guns. How do you know? 
First, think about the neighborhood. If you’re driving through Compton, Watts, Inglewood, South Central LA… Assume that everyone has a gun. However, if you are in Beverly Hills, Brentwood or even Culver City… Assume that nobody has a gun.
At least in America, typically rich people do not really carry guns or self-defense weapons. I find that from a sociological perspective, gun owners tend to be from lower class, middle America, strange people in the Midwest, who “homestead”, listen to Fox News, and too much Donald Trump rhetoric. Typically liberals, left-leaning people, rich people… Don’t even think about guns? I suppose the nuances if you are rich “white-sican” in Mexico City driving the convertible Lamborghini… They probably have a self-defense gun.
Other countries
I suppose the upside of a Japan or South Korea is that nobody has guns, I think even knives are rare.
The upside is whenever you watch these South Korean or maybe even Japanese yakuza movies… Typically they don’t have guns, but samurai blades and swords, sashimi blades etc. 
I would actually prefer a world in which we assumed with 100% certainty that nobody had any guns, knives, and weapons, and if you ever gone to an argument with somebody, it would come down to like a UFC, MMA, boxing style thing…
You solve it, with your fists, your legs, your naked body.
Why did the ancient Greeks wrestle naked?
Theory… Maybe it was all about confirming that the other person did not have a weapon on them?
Assuming no weapons
Once again… I think that ethical thing here is–
Weapons are unethical because they give you an asymmetric advantage, whereas defense or armor is virtuous.
 For example, don’t be a pussy and try to get yourself a gun. My better suggestion is if you really are concerned about your life… Buy a bulletproof vest or Kevlar equipment instead.
60 pound weight vest as a modern day body armor? 
I think one of the great things I am very proud about my 60 pound weight vest, is that certainly at least in a fistfight… I will win. If somebody tries to punch me in the chest, it will likely shatter their hand. 
Also… It might repel, or at least reduce the impact, if somebody shot me with a gun, assuming that the bullet did not go through the in-between areas?
Bulletproof car? 
Funny enough, if you were a drug dealer or you lived in a very dangerous neighborhood or whatever, funny enough it seems that cyber truck might be your best bet. It might be the only mainstream bulletproof armored vehicle?
I mean the real optimal strategy is just don’t live in a dangerous area. But then again at the same time, you don’t want to live in Irvine California. The castrated society. 
What is it that we seek? 
I think we men… Perhaps what we men desire is to become a champion, some sort of hero. 
But wouldn’t it be a better idea that you become a hero, just with your fists, and your body? And your legs?
Think American football 
I’ve met a lot of people who play American football, or played American football, and 0% of the time they ever think or wonder whether I played or not. I think it is just a low-key racism… We assume that Asian guys are weak and effeminate, and we never see Asian American guys in the NFL, and as a consequence… we think of Asian guys as the weaker race.
Backhanded compliments
Whenever somebody calls me Bruce Lee, I appreciate it and take the compliment, but the same time, I get a bit annoyed… Because truth be told, I don’t really care for Bruce Lee at all. I didn’t grow up to Bruce Lee movies, I grew up to Arnold Schwarzenegger! I grew up to Terminator, Rocky, Rambo etc.
The problem with Bruce Lee was he was too skinny, not enough muscle. And it seems that Bruce Lee… he was more of a magician, witchcraft and voodoo.
My critique about martial arts, karate, stuff like that is if he comes almost like a secret weapon, some sort of strange mistresses, rather than raw, pure power, pure muscle.
What do you want to look like?
For me… I would prefer to look like Arnold in his prime. Yet, he was on steroids and openly admits it.
Therefore, the biggest issue we have been is here or all these guys on steroids, propagating a false vision of reality, and you have all these young impressionable teenagers, striving to become like Arnold?
Becoming yourself?
I think the strange thought is we are always taught that to become someone else’s virtuous, and to become yourself is viceful or a sin?
For example, we are always told to become like Jesus… But why is Ever says that you should become yourself? We are taught that being evil, bad,, but don’t realize that Jesus was a bad ass… And often aggressive, like when he busted out the whips, and whipped out the oxen from the Jewish temple, and said out loud “ do not sell wares inside my father home!”
Thinking of Jesus as a flesh bound human being
Pontius Pilate was a real historical figure, and Jesus of Nazareth also was. I told you with 100%  certainty that in fact, Jesus was a real human being, a real man, 100% real… A real flesh bound, physics space, biological human being man… That is assume that all the stories in his miracles were metaphors. In fact, the good thing about being Roman Catholic is that we believe in metaphor, not literals– this is where the protestants and “sola scriptura” get it wrong.
Even Catholics, we think of God as more of a metaphorical figure. Not a literal one.
We also look at the miracles of Jesus Christ, Jesus of Nazareth, Almost from a more secular perspective. Also con substantiation, Eucharist, tribute told everyone knows it is a bit of a metaphor. I don’t think anyone really really really 100% think that when the priest rings the bell, and puts his hands over the unleavened bread, that is actually really does literally and physically become the flesh of Jesus Christ. Any stories about the Eucharist turning into blood, do not trust people without sound judgment.
Anyways, I think Jesus Christ is an interesting individual because his morals and ethics were so radical and revolutionary at the time — to turn the other cheek  a bit of a nonsense.   But my suspicion; if we think about Jesus like Gondi or whatever… How much of Jesus is teaching were based on the fact that he did not have an army that could overtake the Roman Empire, if we magically gave Jesus 1000,000 centurions, would he have behaved or acted differently?
The crucifixion of Jesus 
The reason why it is not good to watch any Disney movies, or Marvel movies, Batman or Superman, or the like is most of these stories and concepts, alter ego etc.… Either come from Stan Lee, or other guys who were either raised Jewish American, protestant, Christian, certainly American… Which has strange notions of a savior complex.
For example even the movie at this, saying that you are “the special”– if you think about all traditional movies in America they are all seeking a Jesus figure, like Neo from the matrix, etc. And let us not forget that Warner brothers discovery which owns all the intellectual property of the matrix and beyond,  they just keep rehashing the same concept, ad Infinitum.
Why?
I think humans, we have a difficult time dealing with complexity, we want simple straightforward answers. Poison example, if you’re Christian in America, the goal is to be like Jesus. But why would you be like Jesus and you own a gun?  Would Jesus have owned a gun? No! He didn’t even have armor!
Americans don’t really care about guns 
I’ll give you an example… John Wick. Everyone universally likes John Wick, even women, even people who are anti-guns. Even I love John Wick!
Yet, in real life,  I am very anti-gun. Not out of any sort of virtue signaling, but rather, I just really think it is the cowardly, weakling, pussy strategy. I really think that the true manly thing to do is once again, fist fights. Not even knives, or having a nail file.
Maybe this is where boxing, Wrestling, or MMA, the UFC is virtuous.? Even American football? Or rugby? But once again… The reason why I advise against any sort of high school or collegiate sports is that there will be at least one or two guys on steroids, without anyone knowing it. or they having low-key steroids, which is “cortisol shots “, to “heal” “injuries” . Anabolic steroids, are often prescribed to heal an injury, and this is how they are fake Weaponized.
assume everyone else is on steroids?
Your favorite CrossFitter, your favorite  calisthenics guy, your favorite water polo player, whatever. Assume that 100% of people are on steroids, whether real or fake steroids.
I think I figured it out… The whole issue is about records, world records, or personal records. If there is a drive to shatter records,  there will eventually be some sort of steroid or fake steroid use. Because biologically, if you want somebody to deadlift 2000 pounds or whatever,  I doubt it is physically possible, unless you inject your asshole with all the steroids on the planet.
So whenever you’re walking around you see a dude who is much buffer than you, assume that he is just on steroids. And as a consequence you don’t really complain about it or feel bad about it… If they want to become impotent and not have kids and have their balls become marshmallows, so be it.
“Balls,,, fuck em,,, who needs them anyways”?
So I think the critical issue here is once again… Everyone is about show, performance, the real world etc.
However, if we think about Achilles and the like…  it wasn’t about competition that they sought, simply, revenge. 
Assume that everyone is lying? 
A simple way not to get scammed in Los Angeles: assume that everyone is lying and bullshitting. Because you might be  right, 1 out of 99 times, and it might save your life? 
So also I thought about life… To play defense — is to be maximally critical and suspicious of everybody. But obviously do it in the spirit of Jesus! 
As long as you are employed, you are not permitted to really speak your mind. 
Trust nobody who is employed, doesn’t matter if they are employed by YouTube, Apple Amazon Facebook etc.… As long as they are not self owned, a sole proprietor, or independently wealthy… They cannot really speak their mind. 
Also, the reason you should not trust people on YouTube is that as long as they get advertising revenue from the videos, they also cannot really speak their minds.
Telos
So I’m starting to think… Rather than thinking about goals, life goals etc.… Perhaps a better way to approach life is to think about your life like a telos, a certain purpose life direction etc. 
For example… It was my life goal to atlas lift 1000 pounds. But now that I achieved it and hit it, then… Now, I no longer have a drive to do this anymore?
And also truth be told, I’m a type of person that I want to please everybody. I think I get it from my mom.
But anyways, trying to please other people, or to live a life in which you never offend anybody… Not possible. Especially if you want to be successful.