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  • Why?

    Announcing Why App?

    Try out ZEN OF ERIC on Facebook Messenger.


    The “5 why?” challenge

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    To gain deeper personal truths about why you do anything, or why you feel a certain way … the Zen of Eric Facebook Chat bot isn’t intelligent. It is not AI. It is rather a sounding board for your own thoughts. It won’t tell you anything you don’t already know in your own heart. ZEN OF ERIC (“Why App”) is a chance for you to ask yourself the big ‘why?’ questions in life, to discover a deeper truth for yourself.

    If you have Facebook and Facebook Messenger, send ZEN OF ERIC a message here.

    How it works

    Essentially we programmed it the following way:

    You start chatting with it and saying hello, then you can have the chance to introspect and think about certain things in life.

    Once you start chatting, the ZEN OF ERIC chatbot will keep asking you “Why?” until you type: “stop“.

    Why did we build this on Facebook messenger?

    My friend Stoytcho built this on Facebook Messenger for the practical purpose that the Facebook Messenger app is a robust platform for chat bots and chat applications. Also, you can use it on your laptop, desktop, phone, or tablet. You can interact with it wherever, whenever.

    Is there a ‘proper’ way to use Zen of ERIC?

    No. Just play around with it. No need to use it if you don’t want to. Rather, see ZEN OF ERIC as a personal mirror or sounding board for yourself, if you just want to flesh out your own thoughts, and to type out and explicate your thoughts.

    How to use ZEN OF ERIC in my everyday life

    1. When you’re bored at home, shoot a message to ZEN OF ERIC CHAT BOT to just say hello, to get your creative juices flowing.
    2. When you’re stuck on the toilet, instead of checking Facebook/Instagram/Twitter/News/Snapchat, start an introspection session with Zen of Eric.
    3. If you’re stuck in line at the grocery store, open up Facebook Messenger and say hello to Zen of Eric.
    4. When you wake up and feel unmotivated, instead of scrolling through email, shoot a message to Zen of Eric
    5. When you read the news and you feel really disappointed and afraid, send a message to Zen of Eric.
    6. Use Zen of Eric when you’re happy, bored, sad, depressed, anxious, or anything else!

    Privacy concerns

    Truth be told, we cannot put 100% faith in Facebook, or Facebook Messenger. It is quite unfortunate we had to build it on Facebook Messenger, but there is really no other better alternative (for now).

    I (ERIC KIM) and my friend Stoytcho did not build this to extract any of your dirty secrets for ourselves. It is simply a tool I asked Stoytcho to build for me, for my personal reasons. Even I use it for myself and my sister Annette used it to discover deeper meaning in her life.

    So my simple suggestion:

    Don’t tell ZEN OF ERIC anything hyper-personal. We don’t really know what Facebook does with all our data.

    All the conversations are not saved to a database. In other words, we (Eric, Cindy, and Stoytcho) can’t see what you write. Only you see your conversations with the Zen of Eric.

    Also note:

    Zen of ERIC is NOT Eric Kim! It is just a soul-less Facebook messenger chat bot, which is programmed to ruthlessly bombard you with “why?’s” to give you deeper philosophical truths about your own personal life.

    Example ideas with ZEN OF ERIC

    1. You can start off with an example prompt to get your creative juices flowing, or you can say “no” and simply ask it any question on your mind.
    2. Some example questions include:
      1. Why do I feel so down?
      2. What is the purpose of my life?
      3. What should I do today?
      4. Why do I care about x, y, z?
    3. Keep asking it questions until you get bored, then type “stop“. Just use it enough for your own personal benefit.

    What now?

    So let us say you used ZEN OF ERIC, and you discovered some very interesting truth about your life. Now what?

    My suggestion:

    Write a blog post about your introspection, and share it with your friends and family!

    Other ideas on how to make your introspections “actionable”

    After your introspection session with Zen of Eric, here are some things you can do and actually ACT upon your newfound insights:

    1. Write yourself an email (send it to yourself) with your introspection.
    2. Write your introspection (just for yourself) on a piece of paper, or in your personal journal/diary.
    3. Talk with your friend/family member over dinner about your philosophical inquiry, and also ask them lots of “WHY?” questions as well.

    Try ZEN OF ERIC FACEBOOK CHAT BOT NOW >

    URL: https://www.messenger.com/t/ZenOfEric


    Dear friend,

    The most powerful 3-letter word is “Why?”

    Why is why important?

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    Hanoi, 2016

    It is one of the first words we learn as a kid, yet is beaten out of us when we are young.

    To be honest, when a kid always asks you, “Why?” it can get a bit annoying.

    But that is where all of our creative energy, insight, and curiosity comes from.

    To never be satisfied with answers, and to always keep asking:

    Why?

    How vs Why

    Photo by Luis Donoso
    Photo by Luis Donoso

    I am a “how” person. I want practical skills, on how to do more stuff, to be more productive, how to be more rich, etc.

    But more robust is the “Why?” question.

    For example, don’t ask yourself how to make more money, but why make more money.

    For me, I ask myself that all the time.

    Why do you want to make more money, Eric?

    Because I think if I have more money, I can help more people. I can help support my sister, my mom, myself, Cindy, and eventually have enough money to help my friends and local community in need.

    Why do you want to help your family, friends, and others?

    Because I believe they have so much untapped creative potential, yet their wages and dependence on money is holding them back.

    Lesson: I want to empower everyone. To do the best creative work possible. To ultimately, empower all of humanity.

    Blessings on blessings on blessings.

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    Berkeley, 2015 #cindyproject

    I’m lucky enough that I have enough. Enough– I have the one all black outfit I wear everyday that I am satisfied with, that I think makes me look cool.

    I don’t currently write on a laptop; all is done on an iPad on IA WRITER– it helps my carpal tunnel in my right thumb, from typing too much. I also prefer the 1 pound weight, even compared to the lightest laptops. I returned my 12-inch MacBook laptop recently, because I thought it was a waste of money for $1800. If I need to process photos or use Lightroom, I just borrow Cindy’s laptop. Or I might try to figure out how to use Lightroom on the iPad.

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    I don’t have a car, nor do I want a car. I don’t want to do stupid DMV payments, pay for insurance, fix and maintain the car, change the tires, change the oil, or have it take space. I prefer renting a car, or riding Uber.

    I have a Ricoh GR II camera: the best digital camera ever made, for $600. If I lose or break it, I can easily buy another. I frankly think it’s a better camera, even compared to $7,000 digital Leica’s.

    Dalat, Vietnam 2016 #cindyproject

    If I’m bored of photography, I have my film Leica. And ultimately, film will always look better, and be cooler than digital photography.

    I don’t like owning a phone. So no more lusting after a new iPhone or android phone. Thousands of dollars, and stress saved.

    I don’t need anything else

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    I like having bundles of cash sitting in the bank, doing nothing. Giving me some financial cushion, to sleep at night. I like not wasting money in stupid restaurants, with confusing names, and I always end up leaving hungry. I prefer eating cheap Vietnamese food anyways, and I can always eat my 5-6 egg snacks in the evening to assuage my hunger.

    I have access to all the books of history via project Gutenberg, and I can read them for free as .epub files, or PDF, or text. No more books I need to buy.

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    Tokyo, 2016

    I like living in a small studio apartment, or cheap hotel. I don’t like owning furniture, too much stress. I don’t really wanna own a home: too much taxes, stress of fixing broken toilets, and shit falling apart.

    I don’t want to own an office space. Less freedom to travel to coffee shops and do creative work.

    Dalat, Vietnam 2016 / Photo by Cindy
    Dalat, Vietnam 2016 / Photo by Cindy

    I used to want to live in a fancy city like SF, NYC, or Tokyo– but I don’t like paying a lot of money for rent. I prefer to live in LA, Saigon, or any city with a lower cost of living. Less stress about rent, more freedom to buy more espresso, and play.

    I don’t want to have a lot of responsibilities or burdens in life. I just want maximum freedom to write, read, think, philosophize, share, teach, and explore. I want to be a child, forever.

    I’ll always desire more.

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    Dalat, 2016

    Obviously, I am still a sucker for technology, materialism, consumerism, and shit I don’t need. It’s in my American DNA.

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    But whenever I feel stressed about money, worried about the future, or concerned– I always ask myself the question:

    Why?

    I feel that so much of us would be a lot more happy if we just asked ourselves “Why?” more often.

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    For myself, I always desire to buy more shit I don’t need, or feel anxiety, because of the following reasons:

    • Desire to impress others
    • Fear of homelessness, bankruptcy, death.
    • Fear of living a life not to the maximum
    • Fear of looking dumb in front of others
    • Fear of regret dying with unfulfilled dreams

    But honestly, I got everything I need. I got Cindy, my family, friends, internet, coffee, and my camera. I got this blog, and a mind that can create things from nothing. I got inspiration from living life on planet earth, and I’m alive.

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    What greater blessing is there than being alive, and being grateful of being alive?

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    For me, it is to create more. To me, affirming life is to create poetry, photos, art, words, ideas, thoughts, and products that can uplift you and others.

    So friend, when in doubt in life, always ask yourself:

    Why?

    Be STRONG,
    ERIC

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    9. 100 Lessons From the Masters of Street Photography
    10. Zen Photography
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    20. 31 Days to Overcome Your Fear in Street Photography
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    Buy books, not gear.

    If you want a quality-education in street photography, I recommend either buying, borrowing, or browsing though some of the books below. Books that are bolded are some of my personal favorites.

    1. Magnum Contact Sheets
    2. Magnum: Degrees
    3. Magnum: Stories
    4. Mark Cohen: Grim Street
    5. Street Photography Now
    6. Bruce Davidson: Subway
    7. Bruce Davidson: East 100th Street
    8. Diane Arbus: A monograph
    9. Helen Levitt
    10. Lee Friedlander: Friedlander
    11. Elliott Erwitt: Personal Best
    12. Richard Kalvar: Earthlings
    13. Andre Kertesz (Editions Hazan)
    14. Robert Frank: The Americans
    15. Garry Winogrand: Public Relations
    16. Garry Winogrand: Figments from the real world
    17. Garry Winogrand: The Animals
    18. Bruce Gilden by Stern Magazine
    19. Bruce Gilden: A Beautiful Catastrophe
    20. Bruce Gilden: Haiti
    21. Bruce Gilden: After The Off
    22. Bruce Gilden: Facing New York
    23. Bystander: A History of Street Photography
    24. Joel Meyerowitz
    25. Jun Abe: Citizens
    26. William Eggleston: Chromes
    27. William Eggleston: Guide
    28. William Eggleston: Before Color
    29. Stephen Shore: Uncommon Places
    30. Daido Moriyama: The World Through My Eyes
    31. Alex Webb: Istanbul
    32. Alex Webb: The Suffering Of Light
    33. Jeff Mermelstein: Sidewalk
    34. Walker Evans
    35. Fred Herzog: Photographs
    36. Vivian Maier
    37. William Klein: Contacts
    38. Joel Sternfeld: American Prospects
    39. Martin Parr: The Last Resort
    40. Martin Parr: Small World
    41. Tony Ray-Jones: Best Of
    42. Josef Koudelka: Gypsies
    43. Anders Peterson: French Kiss
    44. Anders Petersen: Cafe Lehmitz
    45. Zoe Strauss: America
    46. Henri Cartier-Bresson: “The Decisive Moment”
    47. Josef Koudelka: Exiles
    48. Anders Petersen
    49. The Education of a Photographer
    50. David Hurn: On Being a Photographer
    51. David Gibson: The Street Photographer’s Manual
    52. Siegfried Hansen – hold the line
    53. Matt Stuart: All that Life Can Afford
    54. The Photographer’s Playbook: 307 Assignments and Ideas
    55. Trent Parke: Minutes to Midnight
    56. Trent Parke: The Christmas Tree Bucket
    57. Trent Parke: The Black Rose
    58. Harry Gruyaert
    59. Gus Powell: The Lonely Ones
    60. Alec Soth: Songbook
    61. Ping Pong Conversations: Alec Soth with Francesco Zanot
    62. Constantine Manos: A Greek Portfolio
    63. Constantine Manos: American Color
    64. Constantine Manos: American Color 2
    65. David Alan Harvey: Divided Soul
    66. Photographers’ Sketchbooks
    67. Harry Callahan: Retrospective
    68. Slide Show: The Color Photographs of Helen Levitt
    69. Mark Cohen: Frame
    70. Saul Leiter: Early Color
    71. Saul Leiter: Early Black and White
    72. Dan Winters: Road to Seeing
    73. Todd Hido: Photography Workshop Series
    74. Mary Ellen Mark: Photography Workshop Series
    75. The Open Road: Photography and the American Roadtrip
    76. Jason Eskenazi: Wonderland: A Fairytale of the Soviet Monolith
    77. Kaushal Parikh: “Fragments of a Spinning Rock”
    78. Sunlanders by Sean Lotman

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    4. Personal Photography Manual
    5. Street Photography Contact Sheets Volume II
    6. Street Photography Contact Sheets
    7. Monochrome Manual
    8. Street Portrait Manual
    9. Street Photography Composition Manual
    10. How to Overcome Photographer’s Block
    11. Street Photography 101
    12. Street Photography 102
    13. Zen in the Art of Street Photography
    14. Film Street Photography Manual
    15. 31 Days to Overcome Your Fear in Street Photography

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  • Becoming Antifragile

    Probably the best modern-day book I’ve read in the last 10 years is Antifragile by Nassim Taleb. The basic gist is this;

    When things threaten to destroy you, how can it be used as fuel to make you stronger?


    In case you missed it

    No fear.


    What does it mean?

    Essentially the basic idea is that in life, painful, bad, even violent aggressions from others are not to be avoided, but rather, maybe even desired.

    For example, if somebody ask for interacts with you in an aggressive, negative way, consider it as a good thing; after the incident, you have become more robust, stronger, and more impervious to outside aggressions.

    Let me give you example. About a week or two ago at the gym, I was doing my typical atlas lift and a random guy asked me, how much longer I was going to be. Realistically it might’ve been 20 minutes, but I didn’t want to rush myself so I added some buffer. I told him, around 40 minutes. As a result, he started cussing and cursing and saying that what I was doing was “fucking ridiculous.” Fortunately because I was having a good adrenaline rush from doing my lifts, about five minutes later I calmly approached him and asked if he wanted to working with me. He shook his head, and said he wasn’t interested.

    Moral of the story: that incident in which somebody acted bad manners towards me, I actually responded with very good manners. As a consequence, I no longer fear any negative interactions at the gym. If anything, I am quite proud of how magnanimously I was able to respond to such a petty encounter.


    Stoicism is the way

    Stoicism isn’t a perfect technique, but it is certainly useful. I think in the context of manliness, and becoming a “real man”, I think stoicism is one of the best ways to become stronger.

    There are lots of different stoic techniques and stoic tips.

    Essentially, the basic gist:

    When in doubt, delay reaction.

    I suppose I am pretty dedicated to Stoicism, after all, I did name my first son after Seneca.


    Becoming more invincible to fate

    The new topics and directions is combining stoicism, street photography, and entrepreneurship to life:

    1. June 17th, Saturday, 2023: DOWNTOWN LA CONQUER YOUR PHOTOGRAPHY AND LIFE
    2. July 15-16th: ERIC KIM SAIGON VIETNAM TRAVEL STREET PHOTOGRAPHY EXPERIENCE 2023
    3. Oct 14th (Saturday) PHILLY CONQUER STREET PHOTOGRAPHY

    Essentially, I believe that street photography is the supreme form of photography, as it requires the most courage and guts.


    One rep maxing

    Another way to become more anti-fragile or essentially to become stronger is through the one rep max school of weightlifting. The basic notion is this:

    What is the maximum weight, you can lift successfully, once, even moving the barbell half an inch?

    Note —

    1. One rep max atlas lift: 925 pounds
    2. One rep max rack pull: 810 pounds
    3. One rep max floor benchpress: 595 pounds

    ERIC KIM POWERLIFTING 2.0


    Antifragile emotions

    This is another big thing. It seems nowadays, everyone is too hyper sensitive. This means,

    Do not say, do, or interact with me in such a manner that there is even a .001% chance I might take it the wrong way.

    For example, it seems that in modern-day times, it is not permissible to talk to strangers, to make small chat, to approach strangers, to joke, offend people, joke around, etc. Also it is not permitted to make eye contact, smile or say hello.

    I say,

    It is better to risk a social interaction, even if there is a 99% chance of a negative consequence.

    For example, in my every day life, I am surrounded by very unpleasant people. Yet regardless, I am ruthlessly friendly. I will always ask how they are doing, even if 99% of the time they might snub me in a bad way. But I say fuck it, better to be courageous and friendly than to be cowardly and standoffish.


    No Fear

    Just loaded up my Texas squat power bar at the gym, 925 pounds in total, that is nine plates, 25, and a five pounder taped on top. The interesting thing:

    No fear.


    The goal?

    To me, courage is everything. Curiosity and courage actually mean the same thing; couer means heart. Same also goes with curate.

    Whenever I max out the barbell, attempting to lift over 900 pounds, people are always befuddled and ask me why I do it, what the purpose of it is, etc. I never have a quick enough or witty enough response. Typically I just say,

    To fulfill a personal curiosity.

    The personal curiosity of the limits of a human body, my human body, how much I could lift, without taking steroids etc.

    But perhaps, a better way to think about it is actually, I do it as a means to conquer fear. To me a perfect lift is a lift in which your approach it, give it your all without any hesitation or fear.

    In fact, I believe that 99% of street photography is simply conquering your fears. To not let hesitation get in your way.


    What do we regret?

    I think I’d like, typically our biggest regrets or regrets related to cowardice, or fear. For example, you wanted to ask that one girl out on a date, but, you were afraid of getting rejected, and you never did. Or you were fearful for asking her to get married, and you never asked, because you were fearful.

    I know for weightlifters, powerlifters, people like me who enjoy doing one rep max lifts, I think the biggest regrets we have is when we want to lift a certain weight, but fear and hesitation gets in our way, and instead, we lift a lesser amount, afraid that we may “hurt“ ourselves.

    However, an interesting thing that I’ve learned is the fear of hurting yourself is actually a good motivator to force you to focus.

    For example, now at the gym, I’m laser focused. I don’t fuck around. I don’t rush my warm-up routine, and I’ve also been going harder in my warm up, stretching, yoga routine before I lift.


    Greater danger, greater fates

    I forget if it is Heraclitus or Democritus who said this, but essentially the gist:

    In life, the more that a man attempts, risks, and exposes himself to danger, the greater his legacy and fate.

    Fortuna adiuvat Fortis, the tattoo on the back of John Wick. The basic ideas that lady Fortune favors those who are strong, brave, and maybe perhaps a little bit reckless.


    Foolish versus wise fear?

    There is some fear which is wise. For example, I am fearful of dying in a texting while driving accident, and therefore I never text message while I drive, let alone ever text message. I have all notifications turned off on my iPhone.

    Also, with Seneca, I let him do superficially do “dangerous“ stuff, but when it is actually really really dangerous, I tell him. Fear of critical or irreversible injury to Seneca is a fear which is wise.


    What is entrepreneurship anyways?

    I think “to entrepreneur” should be seen as a verb. To risk, to attempt. Even the modern day notion of an essay, comes from the French assay, which literally means attempt. When you write a written essay, it isn’t some storehouse of irrefutable truth. Rather, it is an attempt for you, the writer, to gain a deeper truth about something.


    Success or failure is trivial

    For example, what do you think about king Leonidas and his spartan 300, they are not remembered because they beat the Persians, but rather, their courage.

    Also interestingly enough, in the Iliad, in the duel between Achilles and Hector, Hector knows that Achilles is the superior fighter, and also, Achilles is a demigod, whereas Hector is a mere 100% human.

    However, Homer puts both Achilles and Hector on equal footing. In the eyes of Homer, both fighters, irregardless of their lethality, are both seen as equal.


    Your life?

    I think modern-day life, it may not be fear which holds us back but uncertainty. For example, last summer before me and Cindy went to Phnom Penh Cambodia [thoughts on Phnom Penh Cambodia vlog], I was simply a little bit on the fence, I didn’t know if it would be good or bad. I was may be a little bit indifferent.

    Therefore the simple heuristic;

    If something is even a little bit marginally interesting to you, or might be interesting, just do it.

    If I think about my travels, I don’t think I’ve ever really had an experience in which traveling was a “net negative” experience for me. There has always been good which comes out of every travel experience, irregardless of how difficult it might have been, or some annoyances along the way.

    For example, going to South Korea last year, I got massively annoyed by all of these backwards Confucian moralizing and ethics. But, much good came out of it, because it forced me to do a deep dive on the history of Confucius, Confucian teachings, in order to undermine it.

    Often things which make you angry can be very productive.


    Your life goals?

    I think honestly speaking, I am the most encouraging person that I know. Even my mom said it was a dream of hers that I became some sort of motivational speaker or something.

    Even when I think about my workshops, my passion and my goal is to encourage every single participant in person who attends. To not be a nay sayer, but to be an enabler.


    Other people?

    I have a theory about modern-day society and capitalism and consumerism; it is all predicated on making you feel small and inferior, and the promise of capitalism and consumerism is this:

    If you work really really hard, and earn enough money, you can buy your happiness, your self-worth, your self-esteem through cars, jewelry, things, homes and possessions, commas and zeros in your bank account etc.

    For me, what are my greatest enjoyment is going to the gym, simply going there as a sociologist, and analyzing people, their behavior, their speech patterns, etc.

    Something I have discovered is when people tell you to be “careful“, they are simply crowdsourcing their own fear onto you.

    For example, when people first started to see me Atlas lift over seven plates, eight plates, nine plates etc. even the really really strong guys would tell me in a hushed tone—

    … but be careful.

    When people tell me this, essentially what they are saying is,

    I would never attempt that, because I am afraid that I would hurt myself if I tried.

    Simple lesson: when other people crowd-source their fears onto you, it is simply a signal that they are the cowards, not you.


    Now what?

    I think in life, the best way to live is to always have something greater to aspire towards. For example, it is the joy of the weight lifter to indefinitely increase his or her one rep max, in any given lift. Also it is the joy of the entrepreneur to keep innovating, taking on new ideas, new creative paths, new risks.

    [How to take more risks in life]

    This is where a lot of people are foolish; they dream of the day that they could cash out their Silicon Valley unicorn for $1 billion, and then just chill on the beach for the rest of their lives. No. The true entrepreneur perhaps would actually never sell their company; For example, mad respect to Mark Zuckerberg for not selling out Facebook. The deep regret of Instagram and WhatsApp founders to selling to Facebook, and also the regret of the oculus founders for selling to Facebook.


    Missionary or mercenary?

    One good framing that I got from Peter Thiel in 0 to 1 is figuring out whether other people are missionaries or mercenary’s. Missionaries do it because their soul is in the game (Nassim Taleb), mercenaries simply do it for a fat check and a bonus and a salary.

    In fact, the truly great entrepreneurs in history like a Steve Jobs and Elon Musk were actually quite ascetic.

    For example, Steve Jobs lived like a weird homeless person, and even Musk first built x.com with his brother, sharing the same office space, sleeping in sleeping bags, showering at the local YMCA, and feeding himself on two dollars a day with nothing but hotdogs and spaghetti. Maybe this is where Kanye West is a bad entrepreneur; I think he cares too much for expensive and fancy things.


    Legacy?

    A lot of philosophers have thought about this, but the more I think about it, seeking immortal fame amongst mortals (Heraclitus) actually seems like a good idea. Why? Granted that you have kids, legacy and your fame after death is the only thing which could outlive you, and aid future humanity.

    I think deep down, all humans are altruistic to a certain point. Thinking about legacy isn’t really considering your fame and notoriety after death, but rather, how your life has impacted those who are currently alive, and also people who are not yet born.


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    Now what?

    1. Portable thinking: I still strongly believe that a semi nomadic life is probably the best approach of living. Therefore, never buy, purchase, invest in anything which is not portable with you. For example when you travel and live abroad, you can’t take your house, you can’t take your Tesla, you can’t take your Lamborghini etc. This also means that with your devices, make sure they are super portable.
    2. Why bitcoin is the future, not Ethereum: the new BRC-20 ordinal theory with Bitcoin — the new ethereum killer. Don’t trust anything built on top of the Ethereum network. Further skepticism towards chainlink.

    Now what?

    1. Chat GPT is cool, WHY APP ZEN OF ERIC KIM is better. Chat GPT is like a very efficient Google. Why app, Zen of Eric, is more interesting because it forces you to do the thinking in philosophizing, not amalgamated intelligence scraping off of Google. I think for now Google is safe, because it has been embedded within chrome, and Safari, and it is now in official verb. But, maybe as open AI, ChatGPT continues to expand, google will become less and less useful. Bad News For Google.
    2. I think the future is social spaces. For example, building new gyms which are social experiences, and also let us consider the massive success of an Irvine spectrum, in terms of all the foot traffic they can get.

    Antifragile technology?

    The new thoughts:

    1. Building an anti-fragile website or web platform?
    2. Can chain.link be used perhaps to facilitate more anti fragile things online, via the blockchain?
    3. CRYPTO THOUGHTS

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  • Becoming Antifragile

    Becoming Antifragile

    Probably the best modern-day book I’ve read in the last 10 years is Antifragile by Nassim Taleb. The basic gist is this;

    When things threaten to destroy you, how can it be used as fuel to make you stronger?


    In case you missed it

    No fear.


    What does it mean?

    Essentially the basic idea is that in life, painful, bad, even violent aggressions from others are not to be avoided, but rather, maybe even desired.

    For example, if somebody ask for interacts with you in an aggressive, negative way, consider it as a good thing; after the incident, you have become more robust, stronger, and more impervious to outside aggressions.

    Let me give you example. About a week or two ago at the gym, I was doing my typical atlas lift and a random guy asked me, how much longer I was going to be. Realistically it might’ve been 20 minutes, but I didn’t want to rush myself so I added some buffer. I told him, around 40 minutes. As a result, he started cussing and cursing and saying that what I was doing was “fucking ridiculous.” Fortunately because I was having a good adrenaline rush from doing my lifts, about five minutes later I calmly approached him and asked if he wanted to working with me. He shook his head, and said he wasn’t interested.

    Moral of the story: that incident in which somebody acted bad manners towards me, I actually responded with very good manners. As a consequence, I no longer fear any negative interactions at the gym. If anything, I am quite proud of how magnanimously I was able to respond to such a petty encounter.


    Stoicism is the way

    Stoicism isn’t a perfect technique, but it is certainly useful. I think in the context of manliness, and becoming a “real man”, I think stoicism is one of the best ways to become stronger.

    There are lots of different stoic techniques and stoic tips.

    Essentially, the basic gist:

    When in doubt, delay reaction.


    Becoming more invincible to fate

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    Essentially, I believe that street photography is the supreme form of photography, as it requires the most courage and guts.


  • No Fear

    No Fear

    Just loaded up my Texas squat power bar at the gym, 925 pounds in total, that is nine plates, 25, and a five pounder taped on top. The interesting thing:

    No fear.


    The goal?

    To me, courage is everything. Curiosity and courage actually mean the same thing; couer means heart. Same also goes with curate.

    Whenever I max out the barbell, attempting to lift over 900 pounds, people are always befuddled and ask me why I do it, what the purpose of it is, etc. I never have a quick enough or witty enough response. Typically I just say,

    To fulfill a personal curiosity.

    The personal curiosity of the limits of a human body, my human body, how much I could lift, without taking steroids etc.

    But perhaps, a better way to think about it is actually, I do it as a means to conquer fear. To me a perfect lift is a lift in which your approach it, give it your all without any hesitation or fear.

    In fact, I believe that 99% of street photography is simply conquering your fears. To not let hesitation get in your way.

    What do we regret?

    I think I’d like, typically our biggest regrets or regrets related to cowardice, or fear. For example, you wanted to ask that one girl out on a date, but, you were afraid of getting rejected, and you never did. Or you were fearful for asking her to get married, and you never asked, because you were fearful.

    I know for weightlifters, powerlifters, people like me who enjoy doing one rep max of times, I think the biggest regrets we have is when we want to lift a certain weight, but fear and hesitation gets in our way, and instead, we lift a lesser amount, afraid that we may “hurt“ ourselves.

    However, an interesting thing that I’ve learned is the fear of hurting yourself is actually a good motivator to force you to focus.

    For example, now at the gym, I’m laser focused. I don’t fuck around. I don’t rush my warm-up routine, and I’ve also been going harder in my warm up, stretching, yoga routine before I lift.


    Greater danger, greater fates

    I forget if it is Heraclitus or Democritus who said this, but essentially the gist:

    In life, the more that a man attempts, risks, and exposes himself to danger, the greater his legacy and fate.

    Fortuna adiuvat Fortis, the tattoo on the back of John Wick. The basic ideas that lady Fortune favors those who are strong, brave, and maybe perhaps a little bit reckless.


    Foolish versus wise fear?

    There is some fear which is wise. For example, I am fearful of dying in a texting while driving accident, and therefore I never text message while I drive, let alone ever text message. I have all notifications turned off on my iPhone.

    Also, with Seneca, I let him do superficially do “dangerous“ stuff, but when it is actually really really dangerous, I tell him. Fear of critical or irreversible injury to Seneca is a fear which is wise.


    What is entrepreneurship anyways?

    I think “to entrepreneur” should be seen as a verb. To risk, to attempt. Even the modern day notion of an essay, comes from the French assay, which literally means attempt. When you write a written essay, it isn’t some storehouse of irrefutable truth. Rather, it is an attempt for you, the writer, to gain a deeper truth about something.


    Success or failure is trivial

    For example, what do you think about king Leonidas and his spartan 300, they are not remembered because they beat the Persians, but rather, their courage.

    Also interestingly enough, in the Iliad, in the duel between Achilles and Hector, Hector knows that Achilles is the superior fighter, and also, Achilles is a demigod, whereas Hector is a mere 100% human.
    However, Homer puts both Achilles and Hector on equal footing. In the eyes of Homer, both fighters, irregardless of their lethality, are both seen as equal.


    Your life?

    I think modern-day life, it may not be fear which holds us back but uncertainty. For example, last summer before me and Cindy went to Phnom Penh Cambodia, I was simply a little bit on the fence, I didn’t know if it would be good or bad. I was may be a little bit indifferent.
    Therefore the simple heuristic;

    If something is even a little bit marginally interesting to you, or might be interesting, just do it.

    If I think about my travels, I don’t think I’ve ever really had an experience in which traveling was a “net negative” experience for me. There has always been good which comes out of every travel experience, irregardless of how difficult it might have been, or some annoyances along the way.

    For example, going to South Korea last year, I got massively annoyed by all of these backwards Confucian moralizing and ethics. But, much good came out of it, because it forced me to do a deep dive on the history of Confucius, Confucian teachings, in order to undermine it.

    Often things which make you angry can be very productive.


    Your life goals?

    I think honestly speaking, I am the most encouraging person that I know. Even my mom said it was a dream of hers that I became some sort of motivational speaker or something.

    Even when I think about my workshops, my passion and my goal is to encourage every single participant in person who attends. To not be a nay sayer, but to be an enabler.


    Other people?

    I have a theory about modern-day society and capitalism and consumerism; it is all predicated on making you feel small and inferior, and the promise of capitalism and consumerism is this:

    If you work really really hard, and earn enough money, you can buy your happiness, your self-worth, your self-esteem through cars, jewelry, things, homes and possessions, commas and zeros in your bank account etc.

    For me, what are my greatest enjoyment is going to the gym, simply going there as a sociologist, and analyzing people, their behavior, their speech patterns, etc.

    Something I have discovered is when people tell you to be “careful“, they are simply crowdsourcing their own fear onto you.

    For example, when people first started to see me Atlas lift over seven plates, eight plates, nine plates etc. even the really really strong guys would tell me in a hushed tone—

    … but be careful.

    When people tell me this, essentially what they are saying is,

    I would never attempt that, because I am afraid that I would hurt myself if I tried.

    Simple lesson: when other people crowd-source their fears onto you, it is simply a signal that they are the cowards, not you.


    Now what?

    I think in life, the best way to live is to always have something greater to aspire towards. For example, it is the joy of the weight lifter to indefinitely increase his or her one rep max, in any given lift. Also it is the joy of the entrepreneur to keep innovating, taking on new ideas, new creative paths, new risks.

    This is where a lot of people are foolish; they dream of the day that they could cash out their Silicon Valley unicorn for $1 billion, and then just chill on the beach for the rest of their lives. No. The true entrepreneur perhaps would actually never sell their company; For example, mad respect to Mark Zuckerberg for not selling out Facebook. The deep regret of Instagram and WhatsApp founders to selling to Facebook, and also the regret of the oculus founders for selling to Facebook.

    Missionary or mercenary?

    One good framing that I got from Peter Thiel in 0 to 1 is figuring out whether other people are missionaries or mercenary’s. Missionaries do it because their soul is in the game (Nassim Taleb), mercenaries simply do it for a fat check and a bonus and a salary.

    In fact, the truly great entrepreneurs in history like a Steve Jobs and Elon Musk were actually quite ascetic.

    For example, Steve Jobs lived like a weird homeless person, and even Musk first built x.com with his brother, sharing the same office space, sleeping in sleeping bags, showering at the local YMCA, and feeding himself on two dollars a day with nothing but hotdogs and spaghetti. Maybe this is where Kanye West is a bad entrepreneur; I think he cares too much for expensive and fancy things.


    Legacy?

    A lot of philosophers have thought about this, but the more I think about it, seeking immortal fame amongst mortals (Heraclitus) actually seems like a good idea. Why? Granted that you have kids, legacy and your fame after death is the only thing which could outlive you, and aid future humanity.

    I think deep down, all humans are altruistic to a certain point. Thinking about legacy isn’t really considering your fame and notoriety after death, but rather, how your life has impacted those who are currently alive, and also people who are not yet born.


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    Now what?

    1. Portable thinking: I still strongly believe that a semi nomadic life is probably the best approach of living. Therefore, never buy, purchase, invest in anything which is not portable with you. For example when you travel and live abroad, you can’t take your house, you can’t take your Tesla, you can’t take your Lamborghini etc. This also means that with your devices, make sure they are super portable.
    2. Why bitcoin is the future, not Ethereum: the new BRC-20 ordinal theory with Bitcoin — the new ethereum killer. Don’t trust anything built on top of the Ethereum network. Further skepticism towards chainlink.

    Now what?

    1. Chat GPT is cool, WHY APP ZEN OF ERIC KIM is better. Chat GPT is like a very efficient Google. Why app, Zen of Eric, is more interesting because it forces you to do the thinking in philosophizing, not amalgamated intelligence scraping off of Google. I think for now Google is safe, because it has been embedded within chrome, and Safari, and it is now in official verb. But, maybe as open AI, ChatGPT continues to expand, google will become less and less useful. Bad News For Google.
    2. I think the future is social spaces. For example, building new gyms which are social experiences, and also let us consider the massive success of an Irvine spectrum, in terms of all the foot traffic they can get.

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  • WHY SELF ENCOURAGEMENT IS CRITICAL.

    WHY SELF ENCOURAGEMENT IS CRITICAL.

    For myself, it all comes down to courage.

    How can you encourage yourself more?

    The first thought, I think it means to allow yourself to become more ratchet, less civilized, more savage.

    The second thought, maybe it means to think to yourself, “I was not born for the basic. I was born and destined to do, attempt, and create great things.” When I think about myself, my greatest benefit is being born in America in 1988, growing up in the open minded liberal bay area, and also, having the most encouraging mom of all time.

    Ultimately, I think 99% of a child’s future is predicated on a combination of how they were trained, parented, and the standards. For example, Seneca is only two years old and three months old, yet I treat him like he’s 12 years old. As a consequence, he rises to the occasion.


    Encouragement and courage for the sake of what?

    I think a lot of us have certain dreams, aspirations, and things we would like to do, achieve, make or build. Yet, when we share our ideas with others, other people tell us how we will fail or how our ideas are stupid, rather than actually helping us strategize how to make those dreams a reality.

    Therefore, maybe the first step is this: simply edit out people who are naysayers. You know who those people are. Family, extended family, “friends“ etc.

    The difficult thing is that to brutally edit out people, especially when they are family members, extended family etc., is seen as evil and immoral. No.

    The tall poppy syndrome

    One of the most interesting things that my friend Simon taught me when I was in the UK is that there is the notion of something called a “tall Poppy syndrome” in the UK. That is, when you see the guy driving around in the Lamborghini, you try to discount his or her success by saying, oh, he probably has a small dick, or, that’s probably her boyfriends car.

    America is interesting, because when you see the person who is super rich and successful on TV, it is mostly an aspirational thing:

    Oh wow, if I work as hard as that guy, maybe I could become as successful and rich as that guy.

    Think of a Mark Cuban on TV, Shark Tank.


    Is it good idea to have dreams?

    I think so. When you have certain dreams and aspirations is good in so far much as you have something to aspire towards.

    For example, myself, I had a lot of dreams. When I was in high school, my friend Eric Moon taught me how to build custom computers, and as a side hustle, I started a side business building custom computers, ordering the parts on Newegg, building them, and selling them to friends family and other people at school for a small profit, maybe around $200 to $300 in profit.

    I also had a dream to go to UCLA, it was my dream school. And therefore I hustled hard in school, maxed out all the AP and honors classes, even though I only got B’s in all of them, and also I knew that becoming an Eagle Scout was a good idea, and loading up on extracurricular activities. I think that’s what helped me get into UCLA as an undergrad, even though my GPA was only at 3.9, and my SAT might’ve only been a 1950 out of 2400.

    Later dreams

    Also, some of my dreams being able to become my own boss, being able to transform my passion of photography into a living, traveling the world, etc.


    What do you do once you achieve your life goals?

    I think the final stage is towards philosophy, and entrepreneurship. Also innovation. Why?

    Philosophy is interesting, because it gets to the deeper root of things. For example in America, it seems a lot of people aspire to become more “successful”, but nobody actually has a really critical definition of “success” in America.


    Health

    I think the best way to encourage and motivate yourself is focusing on your health.

    For example, sleeping 10 to 12 hours a night, investing your money buying meat and beef at the Costco business center, going to the gym at least once a day, lots of time outdoors in the light, as little time at home as possible.

    The point of life isn’t about maximizing your happiness or well-being?

    A transformative thought that I had recently; perhaps the point of life isn’t to maximize your happiness or your well-being. But rather, using your life as an innovative tool to simply innovate!


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    Other thoughts

    1. When we are dissatisfied with our clothes, our possessions, etc., maybe it is us a sign that we are simply dissatisfied with ourselves?
    2. If you had infinite money, maybe it is not a good idea to want to have a super flashy car. Why? Too much unwanted attention.

    Fitness thoughts

    1. Buy a Texas power bar, I really like the Texas power bar squat bar, black zinc with chrome sleeves. The best $500 I’ve ever spent.
    2. Any type of weightlifting exercise which requires you to sit down or lie on your back is a bad one. Therefore, no more benchpress, no more lying dumbbell press, no for bench press, no seated shoulder press exercises, etc.
    3. Farmer’s carries are surprisingly an insanely good exercise. For example, just chalk up, and pick up the 150 pound dumbbells off the rack and see how far you can walk with it.

    Cameras?

    1. Leica Q2 monochrom might have decent longevity.
    2. I am still very surprised that my lumix G9 and the Leica Lumix 12 mm F1.4 lens has had such great longevity.

    Life thoughts

    1. A current issue and problem that I’m currently having is that there are just not enough hours in a day. Therefore, I’m still on the quest to ruthlessly prune and subtract the superfluous. To gain more time simply means cutting out more things. Some possible ideas include not going to the gym every day, or maybe building my own garage gym.
    2. Hyperthreading lifestyle; also another funny thought and strategy is trying to concurrently do things together. For example, chilling in the car with Seneca, as I’ve vlog or write like on the iPad with IAwriter. Being able to kill two birds with one stone.
    3. It still seems that we are happiest when we are around other people. For example, apparently a lot of professional bodybuilders, like Ronnie Coleman, even though they have a full on gym at home, they still prefer to go to an external gym, outside of their house. Why? My theory is that there’s something about a semi public gymnasium, being able to see other human beings which stimulates us.

    Suburban thoughts

    Funny enough, the more I think about the suburbs, the more appealing it is to me. Why? The possibility of building your own home gym, also being able to set up that fast home charging thing for your electric car Tesla etc.

    Maybe the ideal life and approach is being able to use your money and resources to build property and build things, not to simply rent from a slumlord.

    Why are people so anti-suburbs? Certainly life in the suburbs is 1 trillion times more boring than life in the city. Yet the nuance, I think it actually takes more skill and creativity to live a virtuous life in the suburbs, rather than live an exciting life in the city.


    Entrepreneurial thoughts

    1. If you want to maximize your ability as an entrepreneur, I believe that your fitness and exercise is critical. I believe that the best exercises for entrepreneurs essentially is powerlifting 2.0, the Eric Kim school of one rep maxing. This means, no boring repetitions, no benchpress, no exercises in with your sitting or lying on your back.
    2. Also, I think your diet as an entrepreneur is actually critical. My theory is towards a 100% organ meat diet; organ meat is a natural steroid and testosterone booster.
    3. Also, to maximize your productivity, intermittent fasting is good. I think as entrepreneurs, we are seeking every sort of hack and approach to maximize our productivity. I have been religiously following intermittent fasting for the last 5 to 7 years, and it is simple; no breakfast no lunch, only one massive dinner a day. Ramadan every day. And when you break your fast, try to eat at least 4 to 5 pounds of beef. And no, chicken is not meat. Also pork is bad because pork is white meat. Fish is not anything.

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    Now what?

    It looks like tech is dead. Is AI even tech? Not really.

    I think still, the next frontier is media. Let us consider all the people who went bananas for John Wick 4, how Michael Bay keeps coming out with new transformers movies, and how everyone is not hooked on Netflix and Disney+. Our appetite for media is insatiable.

    Then I say as an entrepreneur, media is a good idea. Why? You’ll need to know how to code. Anyone could produce media, as long as you have a GoPro, an iPhone, an iPad etc.
    And what is the best platform? You.


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